Virginia, USA, a girl named Hadia (Twitter account @Hadia__S) told her heartwarming experience on a date on social media?
Last week, I was on a date with a man at a coffee shop, but just as he was going to the bathroom, a gay man sitting behind me suddenly shoved me a CVS receipt. After Hadia opened the receipt in confusion, she found that there were eight big characters on the back of the receipt:
Too many red flags. Run. Be safe girl.
Hadia did not expect that he would receive such a note. So Hadia took a photo of the note and sent it to Twitter, which was instantly retweeted more than 30,000 times. Many enthusiastic netizens even hope that Hadia can share more details about the date to help her “solve the case” – why would a stranger give her a “dangerous warning” note?
So Hadia began to recall slowly: First, when he and his date were chatting about the incident of “the rapper Da Baby publicly made homophobic remarks”, there were serious differences of opinion, and the two also argued endlessly.
Secondly, the idol of his date is dating guru Kevin Samuels, who has his own YouTube channel and is very popular on the Internet. Kevin Samuels uses his YouTube channel to encourage men to belittle women, even saying that violence against women is okay. Kevin Samuels was also boycotted by netizens.
Hadia said she was aware of the “red flags” from her date at the beginning of the date, but she never felt she was in danger.
Hadia admitted that she didn’t know who Kevin Samuels was at first, and she secretly Googled it. But when she was surprised to learn what Kevin Samuels did, she resolutely chose to stay and continue to “debate” with her date on the topic of disagreement.
Hadia said that she believed that the strange man who handed her the note must have been very nervous when he heard the topic they were discussing. Run now! Although Hadia had spotted those signs early on, she was grateful for the actions of the stranger who had been “guarding” her behind her.
“Don’t worry, with or without the note, I’ve seen the red flags,” Hadia said. “But I’m really thankful for this note, it added some laughs to my night. I won’t be doing it again. Had a second date with this date.”
Afterwards, most netizens fully agreed with the stranger’s warning, but some netizens believed that it was wrong for Hadia to over-interpret the idea of a date just because they had different opinions; but most people still agreed with Hadia’s opinion, Approved of her decision not to continue dating this man.
Such incidents are not unique. In June of this year, two girls were enjoying time with friends at a bar in Florida, but they were harassed by a strange man during the period, and the two girls were very upset. At this moment, the bartender noticed the situation, came forward and handed a note to the girls: If this strange man harasses you, put your ponytail on the other shoulder and I will help him drive away.
The girl made corresponding actions according to the bar’s suggestion, and the bartender warned the strange man to “stay away from the girls”; finally, the strange man who continued to make troubles was directly thrown out of the bar.
Afterwards, the girl posted this heartwarming move online, and said: “Not all heroes wear capes, some heroes wear Hawaiian shirts!”
The “stranger heroes” in the above two examples are very admirable, they are extremely disrespectful to their date, and their remarks are foul when chatting; PUA, pattern suppression, emotional bullying, cold violence and cold breakup, and even domestic violence… Or put it in the trash can!
